Sh@y's Proverbs

-To be yourself in a world that is constantly trying to make you something else, is the GREATEST accomplishment... Ralph Waldo Emmerson

-If at first you don't succeed, try not to act surprised...

-Things turn out best for the people who make the best of the way things turn out!

-You can't fix stupid! Period.

-Sometimes good things fall apart so better things can fall together!

-Attitude is a small thing, but makes a BIG difference!

-Our eyes are placed in front because it is more important to look ahead than to look back.

-Don't play games with a girl who can play BETTER:)

-The average woman would rather have beauty than brains, because the average man can see better than he can think

-The BEST thing about chasing your dreams is... You can have as many as you want, and they can change anytime. Life is ALWAYS going to be full of surprises! In order to WIN the race, you've got to actually be IN the race!

-Our inside jokes, too many to name. When we're apart, it's never the same. When we're together it's nothing but fun. Replacing my girls, just can't be done.

-If she is amazing, she wont be easy. If she is easy, she wont be amazing. If she is worth it, you wont give up. If you give up, you are not worth it!! Period.

-DON'T LIVE BENEATH YOUR PRIVILEDGES!!!

Monday, August 15, 2011

Life, love, happiness, joy, enduring, enjoying, NO REGRETS!!

My deepest apologies to those(Tia) who like to read my blog and my lack of maintenance/updates!! It has been a long stinkin time since I've posted a blog!! And thanks to Tia I have found that I have followers who actually do read this!! Which surprises me because I feel that my life isn't that interesting to others, but to me it's the best life anyone could live!!

Well quick update on my life!! I am single (still) not a big deal because I don't mind!! But at the same time I hate being "just the bud" that guys hang out with!! It's not that I want to date the guy it's just, it kinda hurts to think that all they see me as is "just one of the guys"!! And that's not cool, not cool at all!! How am I supposed to date anyone if I'm just seen as a "bud" to them all the time??? Good question, I dunno!! I guess I'll just keep you posted!! So in essence Shay does not have a love life!! NCMO's are a whole different story!!


Let's see, I am still working at the Lobster!! I love my job! I love meeting new people! I have some REALLY awesome tables sometimes!! I'm starting to get to the point where I have regulars!! I don't wanna toot my own horn, but... TOOT, TOOT!!!! Also I have acquired a new skill at the Lobster!! Drum roll please... dun, dun, na, na, na.... I am now also a BARTENDER!!! That's right Shay, the Relief Society President is bar tending too!! hahaha it's actually really fun and I get more money in the morning than just serving alone!! I tell everyone it's just quality control cause they know I won't try and drink any of it hahaha:)


I received my associate of science degree at DSC!! So now I don't know what to do with my life and am taking a semester off school!!! It's weird cause I wanna finish school, and I wanna figure things out! But right now at this time in my life I feel that I don't need to rush into anything!! I am at a very interesting stage in my life!! I can pick up and do WHATEVER with my life!! I can move and go to another school, I actually have time to date guys, and I'm not in any sort of pressure to do anything right now!! As strange as this may sound, instead of panicking I feel a sense of calmness as if some thing's coming and things are going to work out!! What's coming? I have no idea! What's gonna work out?? Your guess is as good as mine!! Don't worry I'll be sure to keep you posted on my happenings (to the best of my ability)!!!


As you can tell I am still the R.S President!! And I'm starting to hit the point where I've gotten things going, it's keeping the drive and the flow of things that I need to do now!! Like I totally forgot to put my V.T. reports in last week type of problem that I am starting to run in to!! I know I can do this!! I just need to keep my head up and GET ORGANIZED!!! Organize the stuff that I need to take care of!! I GOT THIS:) Also another plug for the church... I freakin L.O.V.E my ward!! It is by far, HANDS DOWN, one if not, thee greatest (singles) ward I've been in so far!! We are so bomb!! Our ward is so close, that we hang out with each other on a regular basis! Like I see everyone easily 2-3 times a week!! It's so much fun!! I love it! I am going to be so sad when the day comes where I am no longer in that ward!!

Well I don't know what else I can tell ya that you probably don't already know!! Hope life is treating everyone well!! Lub you all!! STAY CLASSY!!


-shay harvey
Have you met my new best friend?? He's pretty cool! He plays baseball, actually he's the pitcher!! I'm a sucker for a guy in a baseball uniform ;)